tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post2467876955952433144..comments2023-06-01T05:55:51.210-07:00Comments on DUNHAVEN PLACE: The Big Guy #1--The Day I Applied For The JobHeidihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12660156433881882098noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-8354902757721890622009-06-01T21:38:15.974-07:002009-06-01T21:38:15.974-07:00You have definitely been chosen. I love your poin...You have definitely been chosen. I love your point of view.Jennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16015165553390298826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-6163752252343667002009-03-04T22:45:00.000-08:002009-03-04T22:45:00.000-08:00Beautiful! This is one of the loveliest things I'v...Beautiful! This is one of the loveliest things I've seen you share. The last sentence is breathtaking. And what a window into your soul! You are amazing.charrettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16351177033783487168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-45355806521137761642009-03-03T10:30:00.000-08:002009-03-03T10:30:00.000-08:00Oh what a beautiful post!!!! I love it.Oh what a beautiful post!!!! I love it.The Crash Test Dummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16893801583172018597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-33300982222531787152009-03-03T09:08:00.000-08:002009-03-03T09:08:00.000-08:00Kellne--it is certainly hard, isn't it? Prayer he...Kellne--it is certainly hard, isn't it? Prayer helps. Stacey--I can't wait to read it! Reed--yes I did. He sure is a handsome guy! Abra--thanks! Janelle--yeah, me too, Laura--thank you!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12660156433881882098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-78619108333313828452009-03-02T18:46:00.000-08:002009-03-02T18:46:00.000-08:00I love this Heidi!I love this Heidi!Laura Dunawayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12728829650628671273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-47598223341356046282009-03-02T14:15:00.000-08:002009-03-02T14:15:00.000-08:00Oh Heidi this made me tear up.Oh Heidi this made me tear up.Janellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14336321282330362007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-67147243938402888532009-03-02T10:29:00.000-08:002009-03-02T10:29:00.000-08:00What a great story... I'm trying to figure out whe...What a great story... I'm trying to figure out when I had my interview -Aquaspcehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02245372987722624186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-61011934673730750252009-03-02T09:22:00.000-08:002009-03-02T09:22:00.000-08:00Did you see the photos of Ron's 50th birthday that...Did you see the photos of Ron's 50th birthday that John J. posted at facebook?reed russellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01848208941156759883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-54377429359181109322009-03-02T09:08:00.000-08:002009-03-02T09:08:00.000-08:00what an inspiring read thsi morning :)htanks!!!!I ...what an inspiring read thsi morning :)<BR/><BR/>htanks!!!!<BR/><BR/>I talk about something similar in my book that is almost doneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-14538665460285724982009-03-02T08:19:00.000-08:002009-03-02T08:19:00.000-08:00You are such a good writer! As a mother with a fe...You are such a good writer! As a mother with a few children that have a varitey of disabilities, I know that my prayers were answered. I prayed for patience.Kellinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04774797731083771852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-63123821125023983802009-03-02T07:25:00.000-08:002009-03-02T07:25:00.000-08:00Thanks you guys--I didn't mean to be "braggy" or s...Thanks you guys--I didn't mean to be "braggy" or self promoting--I guess I was just in a mood to share. Thanks for taking it all in the spirit it was intended.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12660156433881882098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-76223950186262020512009-03-02T03:58:00.000-08:002009-03-02T03:58:00.000-08:00You are amazing. And you nailed the interview!You are amazing. And you nailed the interview!val of the southhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09916872722362877176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-61379391826718103712009-03-02T02:23:00.000-08:002009-03-02T02:23:00.000-08:00love this. what a kick in that last line.love this. what a kick in that last line.Johnnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00773075683946846125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-84432977419861093552009-03-02T00:42:00.000-08:002009-03-02T00:42:00.000-08:00Thanks for sharing this. Sometimes it is importan...Thanks for sharing this. Sometimes it is important to remember what is really most important is the spirits inside these bodies of ours.Nutty Hamster Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03140942348874900744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-74145893290004144152009-03-02T00:29:00.000-08:002009-03-02T00:29:00.000-08:00Cry, cry. You are truly great.Cry, cry. <BR/><BR/>You are truly great.LisAwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03299284773832500834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-83668053580738211972009-03-01T22:47:00.000-08:002009-03-01T22:47:00.000-08:00Also posted on my blog:Thanks, Heidi. My husband f...Also posted on my blog:<BR/><BR/>Thanks, Heidi. My husband feels strongly that we will know that boy/man who was briefly a part of our life when we cross the veil. However, our pain and struggle were short-lived (though there's still a little sorrow) but I think you and your family have earned all the tremendous joy you will feel in the day of resurrection when you get to know your Big Guy as he really is.<BR/><BR/>Also, I really enjoyed <I>Miss Delacourt Speaks Her Mind</I>. The dialogue was so much fun, and the clean romance is refreshing. I've already passed it along to a friend. Keep up that writing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-89302264747329540192009-03-01T20:49:00.000-08:002009-03-01T20:49:00.000-08:00I firmly believe that we all have within us whatev...I firmly believe that we all have within us whatever we need to raise the children we are given--it is part of the plan. That's one reason I don't judge moms who do things differently than I do (that, and the fact that I have been so judged and so hated it) and have confidence in all mothers who are sincerely engaged in raising their children the best that they can. To Pam specifically--when I was expecting my youngest, we were told there was a chance he would have trisomy 18. The fact that he was born healthy and strong in spite of many many close calls, I didn't care one bit that he wasn't a girl (we really wanted another girl!) So much of what happens to us, esp. the tough stuff, happens in order to shape us for what is to come. Thanks to all of you for your words of love and encouragement--you are the best!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12660156433881882098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-55182561027064249022009-03-01T19:59:00.000-08:002009-03-01T19:59:00.000-08:00I absolutely LOVE that last line. How true.I absolutely LOVE that last line. How true.Melanie Jacobsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02489615939726209573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-1026089605223708272009-03-01T18:41:00.000-08:002009-03-01T18:41:00.000-08:00And you passed your job interview with flying colo...And you passed your job interview with flying colors!!!<BR/><BR/>Hubby has always worked with disabled individuals and has the patience of Job - I'm still working on it I'm afraid...TisforTonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16666161027683872670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-47724404232949079972009-03-01T17:51:00.000-08:002009-03-01T17:51:00.000-08:00When I was a teenager, I read many books about chi...When I was a teenager, I read many books about children with disabilities (two of my favorites were <I>Karen</I> and <I>With Love from Karen</I> by Marie Killalea). I sometimes wondered/worried whether I was destined to be a mother to a disabled child. My second job as a live-in nanny included taking care of a child who had severe CP. After that experience, I stopped worrying about it. I didn't get married until I was 33years old, so ABC and I were in a hurry to have our family, but it's one of those things that can't always be rushed. I was 37 when daughter number two was born. The OB who delivered her had made me very nervous about my age, and I told ABC that I really thought we should stop by the time I was forty. I was three months shy of forty when daughter number three was born. ABC and I both had really strong feelings about having children of each gender, so I agreed that I would try one time after the age of forty to see if we could have a son. When I was 41and a half, I lost the baby boy I was carrying. He died in utero as a result of being a trisomy 18 baby. I had to be induced and deliver the tiny guy. He was not a pretty sight. I was really torn between feelings of gratitude that I didn't have to go through a whole pregnancy and then deliver a baby only to watch him die, and mourning the fact that he had died before birth and was thus not sealed to us. The doctors strongly discouraged us from trying to have another child and indicated that having one child with a chromosomal abnormality doubled our chances of having another such child, and the chances were already relatively high because of my age. At first I agreed with them, because I couldn't stand the possibility of going through that again. However, before very long, the desire for another baby overcame all of the fear. It took almost exactly two years for us to conceive again, but during that time, I gained a real testimony of the fact that the children who are sent to us do not arrive randomly, and that it really didn't matter what the statistics are, if the Lord planned to send me a baby with a disability, it wouldn't matter if I were twenty or forty. I actually felt that for me, it was less likely, because if we were meant to have such a child, why couldn't we have kept our little boy? Ultimately, we came to the conclusion that the Lord was preparing us for the fact that we really were meant to be the parents of all girls. I have to say, that the knowledge that our last little lady was strong and healthy went a long way towards easing my disappointment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-6546540564549929022009-03-01T17:19:00.000-08:002009-03-01T17:19:00.000-08:00Sheesh. You kill me. I have no doubt that you we...Sheesh. You kill me. I have no doubt that you were being groomed. And it takes a unique person to do what you do.Kazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04411131948607000725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-64205528196318936612009-03-01T16:18:00.000-08:002009-03-01T16:18:00.000-08:00Lovely!Lovely!Luisa Perkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15310698422276446909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-17098865275887092009-03-01T16:12:00.000-08:002009-03-01T16:12:00.000-08:00That was very sweet and touched my heart. It sound...That was very sweet and touched my heart. It sounds like it was an interview and you got the job. You proved yourself worthy and a special spirit came to your home. I am sure there were people smiling in heaven that day when you passed the test.Joy For Your Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15377226137595067767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-78164485218582129082009-03-01T16:08:00.000-08:002009-03-01T16:08:00.000-08:00Beautiful, Heidi. Simply beautiful.You are a wond...Beautiful, Heidi. Simply beautiful.<BR/><BR/>You are a wonderful, special person!Rebecca Blevinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09378726097105313400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7015651593178985156.post-9031292394939811232009-03-01T15:59:00.000-08:002009-03-01T15:59:00.000-08:00I love you. Thanks for sharing such a great experi...I love you. Thanks for sharing such a great experience.Jamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11049138813340800745noreply@blogger.com